B. People Skills
•1. Be Cheerful
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•2. TQM
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•3. Empathetic listening
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•4. Pray for them
•5. Teach and witness
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•6. Show humility
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•7. Long suffering
One of the things mercy committees and Deacons need to do more is to train themselves in people skills.   Now, some folks just naturally seem to have these traits.   It helps to highlight the need for good “people skills” so mercy workers begin to think about how they are communicating when doing mercy work.
    TQM is Total Quality Management, and it means treating customers as if they were what your business is about.  It is really just a way of loving people by making them feel valuable and important.   This is so important in mercy ministry.  Be cheerful when you visit and interview people, listen to them and ask questions without a suspicious attitude, and interact with them.  Show some compassion as you hear their story.
    We can always offer to pray for folks, even if we can’t give them money or solve their problems.   If we can solve all their problems then neither they nor us need God.   But we do need God, and it is good to admit our own limitations.
    Use interviews as chances to teach, but be humble about it and don’t lord it over people.   Don’t act impatiently but hear folks out.  If you know immediately that you can’t help it is a good idea to let folks know quickly. Don’t lead them on, but be honest and gentle.   It may be that they have more problems than they are presenting.  When you give people some time to talk other things may come out in the open.